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There is a lot of advice floating around
on how to get an ex back, but very few people will take the time to fill
you in on how not to get your ex girlfriend back! When it comes down to
it, the ways to effectively win her back over are as varied as the
personalities behind the break up. There just is no telling, since what
works with one person does not necessarily work for another. Yet, there
are a few things that absolutely do not work, no matter what kind of
woman you are dealing with.
Jealousy
If you think flaunting a new women on your arm is going to make her
jealous and run right back into your arms, think again. This may work on
occasion, but for most men it back fires big time. Likely, she will
either think you have moved on and do the same herself. By the time you
realize it did not work it may be way too late.
Harassment
Calling at all hours of the night or sitting outside her home waiting
for a chance to talk to her is not showing you care. It’s harassment and
could land you in serious trouble. It is important to back off and give
her time to miss you some. Annoying and agitating is not the way to get
your ex girlfriend back!
Complete Cut-Off
The absolute worst thing you can do is to completely disappear from her
life. It is necessary in some cases to give her some space to cool off
and deal with emotions, but if you completely go off the radar it is
easier for her to forget about you altogether. Keep in contact and let
her know you are still there when she is ready to talk, but don’t go
overboard.
Basically, there is a very delicate balance to be found between being
open to discussion and becoming a nuisance she grows to hate. Think
twice before using any of the above tactics!
