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It may happen at any moment, you meet
someone and your whole world is suddenly right. Your knees
start to shake and you find it hard to breathe. Your heart is beating
wildly and you feel all
warm inside.
This is known as love at first sight. Many people experience it
everyday, but keeping that
feeling alive throughout your relationship reqires a little work.When
you first meet someone and
fall in love, the excitment of not knowing everything about that person
intensifies all of the
feelings and makes everything seem great at the beginning.
As the relationship grows and you become comfortable with one another
the warm fuzzy feelings
start to wear off. So how do you keep those at first sight feelings
alive? I'm sorry to say that
those feelings won't last, but if there is real love there then what
follows those first feelings
is much more deeper than you can imagine.Truly loving someone takes on
new meaning as we need to
understand that love grows and changes as the relationship goes from all
out passion to being
satisfied with just holding one another.
I know what you are thinking. You are thinking of wanting to keep the
hot, lusty, passionate
feelings you had in the beginning, but as I said before love changes and
if you are not willing
allowing it to change, then you are going to run into some problems
along the way.I know it has
been said many times before and you probably have heard it a million
times before, but if the
saying wasn't true then it would be worth repeating a millions times or
two. Communication is the
true key to any lasting relationship.
Have you ever wonder at how some marriges last for 50 years or more and
others only fall apart
within their first year or two? The lasting marriages were based around
communication. They were
willing to communicate with one another in order to work out their
differences and to keep their
love alive.
Communicating effectively with one another will keep the guessing game
out of the relationship.
If you want your partner to understand how you feel, tell them. Don't
assume that just because
you go around the house in a bad mood that they are going to know what
has caused that type of
behavior. Humans are incapable of reading each others minds.
Yeah it would be alot easier for us to understand one another, but it
would most likely get us in
more trouble then what we asked for.So in order for us to keep love
alive in our relationships we
have to communicate. A little bit of romance helps a lot too. If its
been awhile since you spent
any time alone with your partner,go out on a date. Do something that you
both enjoy. touching and
kissing or holding hands can add the spark that may be missing. Romance
each other every now and
then. Love one another.